Being Politically correct, doesn't make it "Right"

"So if you felt like I was fine with it and did it, fine, I don't blame you. You didn't know. But if you felt like I wasn't OK with it, and did it anyway, then I have to say that I felt disrespected that one of the very few things I asked wasn't honored. That I wasn't being considered like how I would consider your feelings."

How you feel and how I feel is different....

But because of how you feel a certain way, I'm suppose to be on the same boat?
No, it doesn't work that way.

What you want to do, isn't what I want; in so... by doing what I want, isn't disrespect but you telling me how to act to suit your fancy... now that is; you're not my parent and you sure as hell don't pay any of my bills.
You have no right on telling me what to do, how you think I should etc etc ....

I have plenty of friends that know of each other, don't like each other.... and have high probabilities of getting into a verbal or physical altercations with one another. But I trust them to behave like adults when we all decides to show up for any social gathering etc, they don't have to like each other and all that jazz, but they will act right and behave themselves regardless. Neutral ground, neutral zone.

You don't have to like what I do, done, and will do...
but because you don't like it, or don't want it to happen and I'm suppose to obey?

"one thing is being yourself, and another is being considerate of other people's wishes/requests"
Consideration for one another goes from issue to issue.... it doesn't work like rollover minutes.
The point of "asking", is to seek an answer for agreement or non-agreement.
You decided yourself that I should for some reason, when the whole time I told you I don't and won't, and will do how I see fit.

But then I get this whole FB message novel on it....
Then I find out you two are in cahoots with each other. . . or starting to .... is just you being a hypocrite.